Piano Teaching Q&A: Piano Teaching Mama

Each week we will be featuring questions asked by our readers, and will do our best to answer them and to give some ideas 🙂 

One thing that came up the other day while at lunch with some piano friends was the question of whether it works to teach your own children piano lessons. It is an interesting subject, so I thought I’d open it up to our readers!

As a mom who is a piano teacher, this topic has come to my mind quite often, as I am sure it has for many of you readers who are also parents. It is quite the debate in my mind:

On the one hand, I have put in so many hundreds and thousands of hours in my own piano study and have achieved a college degree in piano performance, and I have taught for so many years and gained much experience – why not use all of this education and experience to bless my own family? Since my husband and I are both pianists, and both of our families are full of musicians, chances are that our kids will be quite musical. Think of all the money we could save on piano lessons! Think of the ease in scheduling lessons, the avoided hassle of finding the right teachers and driving children to all those lessons (not to mention the saved time that would be spent driving to all these lessons!), week after week after week. Think about how hard it really could be to find a teacher who I really feel could give my children a wonderful music education, when I, myself, have all the training and requirements I’d be looking for!

But on the other hand, what if my children just don’t respond to me in the role of piano teacher? What if it’s hard to separate between the two roles? What if, by taking lessons from their mother, my children are missing out on a wonderful teacher who could be an amazing mentor in their life? What if we get lazy and put off lessons, and thus lack the structure of normal piano lessons?

So much to think about. I really haven’t come to a conclusion yet. I may not be able to figure it out until my son is older. I do think that a lot of it may have to do with the personality of the child. For example, I used to teach my little sister and little brother. My sister responded fine to my teaching. My brother, on the other hand, would sit on the piano bench with his hands covering his ears, refusing to listen to me (thanks Josh!). (Luckily they both moved on to other teachers and both turned into fine pianists!) 

One of my former piano teachers once told me about teaching her own children. She actually had them walk out the front door and walk around to the studio entrance for their lessons. Once they walked in that door, she was their teacher. After the lesson they would walk back outside and into the front door, where she would greet them as their mother.

Ok, readers: what do you think? Any readers out there who currently are teaching their own children? Any who have children taking from someone else? Ready, discuss!

If you have a question you’d like to ask us, leave it in a comment or submit it here.

What to teach at a first lesson?

I absolutely loved Bonnie’s post on teaching a first lesson. There are so many wonderful things she said; I particularly love how she emphasized making it fun and exciting, and about nurturing the wonder of music in the student’s mind.

Yes, this is a huge and varied topic, depending completely on the personality, age, skill level, experience level and attention span of each student. Here are a few of my thoughts, to add to Bonnie’s, on the topic of teaching a first lesson:

  • Be friendly, be excited. Make it fun. I really cannot add anything to what has already been said on this topic.
  • Get to know the student. Find out what they want to get out of piano lessons. Do they want to study music in college? Do they want to be able to play the piano at church? Do they want to just be able to sit down at the piano and sight read? Sometimes you will be pleasantly surprised by the goals of your students; when your teaching is aligned with their goals it makes for a much more successful and positive experience.
  • Get on the same page. Each student is unique; no two students will be at the exact same starting point. If they are a transfer student, it may take a little while to assess exactly which level the student is at in their technique, theory, etc. Even some beginners will already know concepts that other beginners don’t. You may have to review some concepts with them or backtrack to make sure they have learned things correctly. This is actually a great thing to try and figure out before the first lesson, at a new student interview/audition, because it can take awhile.

Now let’s pretend your new student is a six- or seven-year-old beginner who has not had previous piano lessons. Here is a sample list of concepts to go over in the first lesson, and a few ideas on how to teach them. I like to make sure we cover technique, theory and repertoire in each lesson. Keep in mind that every student is different. Sometimes you will not have enough time to go over everything on this list; sometimes you will get through it in ten minutes! So be prepared but be flexible. And obviously you want to get through this information, but do it in a fun and interesting way! Put your own personality into it.

  • Technique
    • How to Sit at the Piano
    • Correct Hand Position
      • Stress from the very beginning that fingers should be nice and curved. Tell them to pretend their hand is a bird’s nest, then turn it upside down. I find this analogy works better than the holding a ball analogy (you don’t want the fingers too curved in!). Their fingers should be curved but relaxed – so as not to crack the eggs in the little nest! 
      • Put little dot stickers on the tips of the student’s fingers where they should be touching the keys, and also on the keyboard in a sort of half-circle shape (where their fingers should be touching), and have them match up the stickers! I used this method with a five-year-old boy once, and he loved it! I think it sometimes helps them to visualize it better.
      • Playing a five-note scale on C is great to start out with
  • Theory
    • Basic Layout of Keyboard (White/Black Notes, Black Note Patterns, High/Low Notes, etc.)
      • Make some sort of game out of it – it could be as simple as, “can you play all of the sets of 2 black keys?” or “can you play a set of 3 low black keys?”
    • Names of the White Keys
      • Make it fun – tell them a story! Here’s one I heard in a pedagogy class: the 3 black keys are Grandma’s house. Who lives in Grandma’s house? Grandma (G), of course! And what does she bake? An apple (A) pie! Grandma’s house has a front (F) door and a back (B) door. Outside there is a dog house (the 2 black keys), where Doggie D lives. Outside the doghouse there is also a cat (C) and an elephant (E). Don’t ask my why there is an elephant in Grandma’s yard – but if you have a better idea that starts with an E, I’d love to hear it! 🙂 Hey, at least an elephant is memorable, right?
      • Make it a game – play a white key and have them name the note as fast as they can. Name a note and have them play that note as fast as they can.
    • Basic Rhythm – quarter & half notes
      • I would love to know how you readers teach rhythm. There are so many methods of counting for beginners: “1-2-3-4,” “1-2, 1, 1” (counting out the number of beats for each individual note), “long, short short,” “half-note, quarter quarter” (I never really understood this method, because it takes twice as long to say “quarter” as it does to say “half” or “note”). 
  • Repertoire
    • It is nice for the student to be able to play something after their first lesson – whether it is a simple piece learned by rote, or the first piece in their method book
So there you have it, some ideas to get you started! Now tell me – what do YOU do at a first lesson? What concepts do you feel are important to go over? What things do you do to make it fun and exciting?

The First Lesson

There is never enough time in the first lesson. Think about all the things you would like to say and do. You could go on for hours! How do you get enough information into that little head to get them excited about music, motivated to work hard, and able to have a successful first practice week?

It’s kind of a huge subject to tackle, because no two students are exactly alike in personality, learning style, background, or previously-acquired knowledge and skills. Maybe you have a 5-year old who has never had a music class, an 8-year old who has played the violin for 4 years, a teenager who has had years of piano lessons but stumbles through reading simple pieces (oh, that one hurts my heart), or an adult who nervously admits to always having wanted to play, but fearing it is too late to learn.

So, rather than specifically outlining exactly what you “should” say or teach in the first lesson, I’d like to give some broad guidelines. Whatever you do, remember that you don’t have to do it all in the first lesson. Keep it simple, keep it fun, and be yourself.

  • Make the student comfortable.
    • Get to know them a little before diving into the subject matter. Even though there is a lot to cover, remember that this is the beginning of a (hopefully) long and important relationship. They need to know you are interested in them as a person, as well as a musician.
    • Make sure they know they can ask questions at any time.
    • If you’re anything like me, you (the teacher!) might be a little shy when getting to know a new student. Let them know that it will take a little while for the two of you to get to know each other. And don’t be afraid to let your personality show.
    • Tell the student a little about yourself, including things unrelated to music. Give them something they can identify with.

  • Give the student some structure.
    • Explain how your lessons will flow.
    • Explain how their assignment book is structured.
    • Explain what they are expected to do at home each day.
    • Talk about the shared responsibilities of the student, parent, and teacher.

  • Get the student excited.
    • Do something fun! Young children especially have eagerly looked forward to this day, filled with the wonder of music that is so evident to their little minds. Be careful to nurture that wonder, rather than squashing it with lengthy explanations and assignments.
    • Get off the bench. Move to the music. Do not for a moment let this newly opened mind begin to believe that music is boring and unmoving.

  • Give the student confidence.
    • Teach them something right in the lesson that they can master and take home with them. For a younger student, it might be as simple as naming 3 notes on the keyboard. An older student might be able to learn a simple piece by ear.
    • Explain very clearly what you want them to practice at home, and how to practice it. Give them enough to do that they will make some progress, but not so much that they will be overwhelmed.

I haven’t talked about what technique, theory, or literature to cover in the first lesson. Those things differ so completely based on the student’s age and experience that I hardly know where to begin. But you will know what to do, and if you don’t, you’ll make it up until you do. We all do that as teachers; the key is to do it with confidence!

Piano Friends

Today a fun group of my piano friends got together for lunch. We caught up, we talked about life, about teaching, and about juggling teaching and family. It was so wonderful to spend some time with these girls with whom I have piano teaching in common, and to bounce ideas off of each other. I miss seeing them on a regular basis on campus and in the practice rooms (it seems oh-so-long ago!), and after chatting with them I feel inspired to be a better teacher.

That is what I love about this blog and what I hope it will become – a place where we can all talk about teaching, where we can give each other ideas and encouragement, and where we can have a whole network of other teachers and piano friends to bounce ideas off of – because we all need some inspiration and support every once in awhile, right?

So thank you for reading, and thank you for all the wonderful comments! I am looking forward to more ideas about teaching a first lesson this week, as well as to our first giveaway! Stay tuned!

teaching how to teach

Some of you will remember my post about one of my dear piano teachers, in which I mentioned that she emphatically stated at our first meeting, “I teach teachers.” I love that.

It is because of her dedication and love for teaching that I became a teacher. And it was also because of her help and constant encouragement. She actually found my very first student for me (her next-door neighbor). She encouraged me and gave me advice. But one of the most helpful things that she did was this: one week, instead of my regular lesson, she taught me a lesson on how to teach a first lesson.

Looking back on this, I think this was one of the best things she could have done for me. Teaching a first lesson can be nerve-wracking, especially if and when you don’t have a clue what you are doing. It was so helpful to have her sit down with me and go over exactly what you should do on a first lesson.

I have had the privilege of teaching one of my own students a lesson on how to teach a first lesson. By this time I had quite a bit of experience to draw from, including pedagogy classes in college, but I still used quite a bit of the same material that my teacher taught me that day. It was actually a really cool feeling to encourage one of my own students to teach, just as my teacher had encouraged me. I would highly recommend encouraging some of your students to teach by teaching them how to teach a first lesson – after all, sometimes we just need a little push in the right direction!

What or who encouraged you to begin teaching? Did you have any help in learning what to do at the first lesson?

Don’t forget to take this week’s poll – and you can actually vote for more than one answer this week!

some poll results & a fun new topic

Well another week has gone by, and here are our poll results for this week’s poll about your studio!


What kind of studio space do you have?

Thanks for participating in our poll! It’s always interesting to see the results we get. We have also loved all the wonderful comments we’ve gotten this week. The comments are what really makes the blog great, because it turns into a discussion and we all help teach each other. Love it!

Now onto our new topic:
  
Teaching a FIRST Lesson.

Because let’s be honest: we have all experienced that brief moment of panic when we are teaching our very. first. student. ever. and we realize we don’t know what the heck we are doing. We thought this would be a useful topic 🙂 Plus we have tried to go in a somewhat chronological order with our topics of the week, and once you get your studio set up, decide on a few policies, advertise and get a few students – that’s when the teaching/fun begins!

So let’s hear it: leave us a comment and tell us about your first lesson you’ve ever taught (this could be fun…). Or, tell us how you go about teaching a very first lesson to a beginning student. How about transfer students – how do you handle their first lesson with you? Any tips for teachers who are just starting out? Leave a comment – ready, go!

Also, don’t forget to take our new poll as well as our reader survey! Become a follower or a Facebook fan to get updates when we have new posts…and to let you know about our giveaway that is coming up later this week!

Piano Teaching Q&A: Curve Those Fingers!

Each week we will be featuring questions asked by our readers, and will do our best to answer them and to give some ideas 🙂 We have had some wonderful questions that will be addressed in the next few weeks’ topics. So, this week instead of answering a question, I’d actually like to submit a question to all of you
Here is my question: How do you reinforce the concept of playing with nice, curved fingers and help your young students to actually make it a habit? I have a seven-year-old boy that I teach who constantly forgets, and plays with flat fingers and collapsed knuckles. When I remind him, he fixes it immediately and plays with a great hand position. But after a few minutes he forgets and goes flat again!
yes those are the lovely curved fingers of Janina & yours truly.
So anyway, I’m afraid I sound like a broken record to this kid because I keep on reminding him over and over to “curve those fingers!” Any brilliant ideas to help reinforce this concept in a fun way?

oh and p.s. In case you have wondered, Janina has been SUPER busy as of late with her masters, moving her little family out of state, buying a home, etc. – so that is why she has taken a little “hiatus” – but don’t you worry! She will be back! Let’s send her some happy *you can do it* vibes her way!!!

If you have a question you’d like to ask us, leave it in a comment or submit it here.

get ready…

Sometime in the next week or two we will be having our first GIVEAWAY!

One of our lucky readers who enters the giveaway (more instructions to be announced!) will win a great gift! So, make sure you become a follower of our blog (click on the button on the sidebar) OR become a Facebook fan so you won’t miss out! We will be sure to post about it on our Facebook page, and if you are a fan it will show up in your news feed.

Be excited! 🙂

my studio space.

I teach in my home. As a mom, that is something that is so important to me. I love having this wonderful job that I can do without leaving my home. Having said that, I do think it is also important to make sure that your studio space is an environment that is free from distractions and conducive to learning and teaching. (We will definitely be spending a LOT more time on the topic of Balancing Teaching & Family – because I know a LOT of you teachers are also moms. This is a topic that I ALWAYS am thinking about and trying to balance!)

Right now I teach in my living room. It works just fine. I make sure it is nice and clean and free from distractions, and I have my music library and supplies nearby and it is great.

However, I would LOVE (in the distant future when circumstances and finances permit, mind you) to have a studio that is in my home that is separate from our living area. Like with a separate entrance. And a nice copy machine and computer completely for the studio, and a NICE piano or two, and nice decor and a really nice music library and a great listening library and stereo system, and…and…and….the list goes on and on, doesn’t it? It would be so fun to have a whole space just devoted to music and teaching.

So, tell us about YOUR studio space – where is it, why is it there, how do you make it a good learning environment, what your DREAM studio would be – let’s hear some comments!

p.s. take our poll about your studio space 🙂

organizing your music library

Recently I really needed a new way to organize my music library.

I used to have them all lined up on a bookshelf. That worked alright for awhile – like until someone grabbed a few books to play from. Then they all would start leaning and falling over. Plus it never really looked very nice anyway, with the mixture of spiral bound books and sheet music and old books with falling-apart spines. And I would initially try to organize them by composer, but they would inevitably get all out of order.

So next I found a large, cute basket at Walmart, and had it in my living room next to the piano. My music books fit perfectly and it was easy to grab a book and put it back in the right place without them getting all disorganized. But I quickly outgrew that! And inevitably the organization still went right out the window.

Here is my most recent way of organization, and I quite like it!

First I bought a nice shelf to use. Then I went to Ikea and bought a whole bunch of their cardboard magazine holders (they are really inexpensive, and look nice!). I organized all my music by composer and labeled each magazine holder and put them on the shelf. It looks nice, plus it’s easy to pull out the needed music and keep them all in order.

The only problem is that my two-year-old loves to pull the little labels out and bring them to me (luckily I found all but one for this photo!)

How do YOU keep your music or teaching materials organized? Any fun ideas to share?

Check out some more studio organization ideas in our “Helpful Resources” section.

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